Ten Stupid Things Women Do To Mess Up Their Lives

Dr. Laura Schlessinger wrote this book many years ago. I wish I would have read it many years ago. Already I have made just about every mistake. Since I am only 23, I still have time to change and readdress my own issues amd what I need to be doing with my life now.

I am currently back in school and taking other classes on the side (sewing) and finding time to be by myself.

Dr. Laura explains that living together before marriage does not mean your marriage is going to last longer. I can see why she explains that this is a mistake and you are making yourself much too much available to the man. Am I giving Brian the "let's see if this feels good today and everyday for the time being" issue? Definately. I agree with you Dr. Laura. I do feel I am way too available and giving him this daily "test" yet this is what I chose to do and this is my commitment I have already made and will keep to a very respectable and honorable man.

Marriage? That is way too much for me to even think about at my age. Then I ask myself: am I committed to this relationship? Yes, faithfully, emotionally and physically. I love my boyfriend and we've already started this and we plan to finish - until death do us part. Do I ever want to be married? I haven't a single clue.

Dr. Laura is a controversial radio talk show host. An amazing, intelligent woman. A woman who has helped millions of women. Read her books, she offers sound advice and you, too, will soon find your "ah ha" moment.

I highly recommend this book for every woman from 16 - 99!

Sewing Sites

I am huge on organizing and while browsing I found this wonderful sewing site at sew-whats-new.com. They have an excellent article on a sewing room:
http://www.sew-whats-new.com/profiles/blog/show?id=2031451%3ABlogPost%3A32945

Check it out! You may find some tips that you need!

They also have fun sewing games, forums, blogs and videos.

Other sites:
http://thesewingdivas.wordpress.com/
http://behindtheseams.wordpress.com/
http://iocchelli.com/just-sew-it/
http://juliasewing.blogspot.com/
http://eleanorscloset.blogspot.com/
http://www.dressaday.com/dressaday.html
http://sixandahalfstitches.typepad.com/six_and_a_half_stitches/

Enjoy!

1131 Designs

A good friend of mine has a fantastic design business named 1131 Designs. She is just wonderful and so very talented! I want everyone to check her out her blog:
1131designs.blogspot.com

I'm sure you will love how artistic and clever this lovely lady truly is! You should see how gorgeous her home is decorated, when time will allow we'll have to begin on my house!

Adding to my Dressform

I had to add to my amazon.com dress form. It's a Japanese brand and I cannot remember the name. It has dial adjustments for the waist, hips and bust in three four places. I still had to add padding for the waist and bust. I began with batting and duct tape and lots of printed research from the internet.

Here you can see that I began by widening the shoulder. It takes a lot more batting that I thought I would have used and even had to make an extra run for additional duct tape.

I adding batting to each side until it became the 17 inches I needed.

Another hint to mention is to secure from all sides of the areas you are adding to. In this second picture you will notice I used longs strips of duct tape from the top of shoulder past the underarm and down the side of the dress form. Additionally, I decided to add a horizontal strip of duct tape at the side of the dress form to secure the area even more. Alternating layers of horizontal strips of duct tape and vertical layers of duct tape will help increase the security also.

Here I began to add to the bust area. I had to go through several ways of adding batting until I found the most appropriate. I started by making sure the sides were at the correct width and then I added a bra that fit snug around my bust. I placed this bra on and began to duct tape my body (with help) with vertical and horizontal layers until I had my chest area covered. Once carefully removed, I had a "bust" of my bust! I secured this onto the dress form and began to fill the areas with layers of batting.

Here you can see my finished bust on my dress form. It has duct tape from one side of the neck down to the opposite side of the bottom of the rib area (halter style) for extra support. You will notice a lot of perkiness and this is because it is fitted with my favorite Calvin Klein bra. You will also notice the finished shoulder width. At a later date I will be adding detachable arms. A dress form that fits you properly is wonderful because you can also use it to re-form your bras after a wash.

Lastly, I added a small bit of batting and duct tape to the rear to match the same area of my hips. You will notice that this dress form doesn't go very far down the hip area, so I only had to copy the top half of my butt! Although, it has been a month or so and I could use a tad more padding. : )

Sunday

It has been a relaxing weekend. Of course, I was not able to do the sewing I was in high hopes for (my skirt!!!) but I did manage to practice the tips from the couture class and finish Season 3 of Project Runway (yes, I am far behind on cable TV). Practicing narrow hems, strong spaghetti straps and gathering techniques. All of which I have found are super easy.

I was hoping to make it to PA this weekend for Wicked, but it seems that I need to take care of other things around home.

Now it is time for me to go back to housework before the new episode of Family Guy begins.

Muslin Fitting

I finally cut out and completed my muslin yesterday and it fits great! I cannot wait to cut out the fashion fabric and begin putting the skirt together. The information from my "Top Ten Couture Techniques" class with Susan Khalje gave me information on doing the grossgrain waistband. I had previously learned about it in a class with Shannon Gifford ("How to Build a Better Skirt") and she taught me the basics but Susan gives extra tips that will help me make my skirt perfect!
As you can see I want this to be very girly. Now that I have an excellent pattern (made by yours truly!) I can many, many of these! My plan is to use a rayon lining to give it that extra oomph!

Soon I would like to to make a fashionable cummerbund with buttons and the like (military-esque).

The other night I went through my closet and decided to rid it of any and everything I haven't worn in forever and know I never will. Let us just say I filled a very very large trash bag full of items I plan to take to Goodwill. I also included shoes. I like to do this quarterly (yes I have a shopping problem) and give things away, it is good to give and makes me feel warm 'n fuzzy inside. Seriously.

I am getting ready to sign-up for the wool fabrics class on patternreview.com. Everything is about to get very busy for me since I begin classes at South University on the 6th of October. I am currently studying business.

I have also chosen to have my boyfriend take my Ann Taylor charge card. Considering the economy and who knows if this will lead to a depression or not, I need not spend what I do not have. Also, this is encouragement to do a whole lot more sewing.

Another project will be two pairs of Republican boxers for my boyfriend and his father. I'm just a tad scared of the elastic. But I know I can do it!

A Is For Apron

A Is For Apron is a wonderfully collaborative book put together by Nathalie Mornu. It includes 25 "Fresh and Flirty" designs by several designers including:
Betsy Couzins, Wendi Gratz, Erin Harris, Teresa Harrison Johnson, Samantha Kramer, Morgan Moore, Joan K. Morris, Jennifer M. Ramos, Aimee Ray, Susan Sertain, Valerie Shrader, Ruth Singer, Carrie Sommer, Joan Hand Stroh, Suzanne J.E. Toutillott, Amy Tyree and Angelina Williamson.

The book includes an introduction, anatomy of an apron (including different pocket details), making your apron have flair, apron kit, techniques, a short history on aprons and many pictures of vintage aprons.

The designs included in this book are wonderful! There is something in this book for anyone who needs an apron (and who doesn't?) or wants to practice sewing (and who doesn't?). I plan to make a few aprons for Christmas gifts and decided to grab this book as a muse.

I will say that my favs in the collection are Cosmopolitan, Deep Pockets, Josephine (which is reversible), Mango Tango, Marie Antoinette and Kaleidoscope. These are all very different designs and Kaleidoscope even includes pintucking detail.

The fabrics used in all the designs are wonderful and it shows how you can put different material patterns together for a wonderful "fresh" look.

Overall, I can't wait to begin making my own aprons, for myself and family and friends.